The Four Horsemen Archives - The Gottman Institute https://www.gottman.com/blog/category/column/the-four-horsemen/ A research-based approach to relationships Thu, 04 Apr 2024 22:29:28 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.3 https://www.gottman.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/g_icon_two_tone-64x64.png The Four Horsemen Archives - The Gottman Institute https://www.gottman.com/blog/category/column/the-four-horsemen/ 32 32 Stonewalling vs The Silent Treatment: Are They The Same? https://www.gottman.com/blog/stonewalling-vs-the-silent-treatment-are-they-the-same/ Mon, 31 Jul 2023 15:00:00 +0000 https://www.gottman.com/?p=446193963 What’s the difference between stonewalling and the silent treatment?

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]]> D is for Defensiveness https://www.gottman.com/blog/d-is-for-defensiveness/ Mon, 29 May 2023 12:00:00 +0000 http://gottman.ivykitten.com/20141031d-is-for-defensiveness/ Defensiveness is a wicked game. But it’s winnable.

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]]> Help! Someone Told Me I’m Stonewalling https://www.gottman.com/blog/help-someone-told-me-im-stonewalling/ Mon, 06 Feb 2023 14:00:00 +0000 https://www.gottman.com/?p=446227055 Stonewalling is dramatically misunderstood. It is not the icy indifference that it might appear to be on the surface. 

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